Transformation isn’t a glow-up.
It’s not aesthetic.
And it’s definitely not linear.
Real transformation feels like:
identity loss,
emotional exhaustion,
grief for who you used to be,
and confusion about what comes next.
Happy Habits exists for people who are already in that space — not for people trying to bypass it.
About.
MEET ZAJÉ
I’m Zajé.
I didn’t build this method from theory.
I built it while my life was actively falling apart.
Through depression, anxiety, identity loss, grief, motherhood, and a long spiritual awakening, I realized something simple but confronting:
Most of who we think we are is just a collection of habits built for survival.
When those habits stop working, it doesn’t mean you failed.
It means you’re being asked to rebuild — differently.
That’s what this work supports.
CREDENTIALS
- Author of Happy Habits
- Recording Artist
- Grammy-winning artist collaborations
- TV/Film sync placements
- Quantum Leap Meditation Leader
- Integrative Wellness & Life Coach
WHO THIS IS FOR / NOT FOR
This space is for you if:
You feel like your old life or identity no longer fits
You’re spiritually aware but practically overwhelmed
You want habits that support your nervous system, not fight it
You need change that works in real life — not ideal conditions
This space is not for you if:
You want quick fixes or constant motivation
You’re looking for someone to tell you who to be
You thrive in high-pressure, productivity-driven environments
Not ready to step inside yet?
If you’d like a gentle way to experience this work,
I offer a short grounding audio for times of change.
It’s a quiet place to settle, with no expectations.
You’ll also have the option to join my email list, where I share future live experiences when they’re available.
OFFERINGS.
If you’re here, you don’t need more information.
You need containment.
You need a place where:
nothing is rushed.
nothing is forced.
and you don’t have to perform healing.
That’s why I created this:
🌱 THE BECOMING CONTAINER
A low-pressure space for people in the middle of transformation
What it is:
A 4-week, audio-led experience designed to help you
stabilize, reflect, and gently rebuild your habits while your life is changing.
No daily tasks.
No Zoom calls.
No falling behind.
What you receive:
- 1 grounding audio per week (10–15 minutes)
- 1 reflective journal prompt pulled from Happy Habits
- Optional sound + voice support (music / tone / regulation)
- Lifetime access — move at your own pace
This is not a course.
It’s a container.
Designed for:
- low energy
- emotional fatigue
- busy lives
- real nervous systems
Price:
$44 (one-time)
People don’t leave this container “fixed.”
They leave with:
- more internal clarity
- less self-blame
- habits that feel supportive instead of punishing
- permission to move forward without rushing
That’s the real work.
📖 Happy Habits: A Practical Guide for Your Spiritual Awakening
Paperback & eBook
This book isn’t about becoming a better version of yourself.
It’s for people whose old version no longer exists.
Written during my own unraveling when my life was crashing all around me, Happy Habits is a companion for:
- identity transitions
- spiritual awakenings that aren’t peaceful
- rebuilding life after survival mode
You don’t read this book quickly.
You return to it when you need grounding.
Paperback: $20
Ebook: $14.99
Songs of
Becoming
Album | Streaming now
Sometimes words are too much.
Sometimes your body needs sound first.
I create music and soundscapes to support regulation, reflection, and emotional processing — especially when you’re too tired to “do the work.”
This is optional support, not another thing to keep up with.
testimonials.
I enjoyed the workshop. Zaje’s energy made the workshop worth the experience. The manifestation challenged me to think of my future as something tangible, and not so distant. I’d recommend this workshop to any woman who feels like she’s in a in-between phase in life, because it would help narrow down your dreams and find ways to build habits to meet your best self.
TAYLOR C, HAPPY HABITS WORKSHOP ATTENDEE
Hi! I loved the workshop. I wasn’t sure what to expect but the guided meditation really opened my mind to the perception of meeting my future selves. The questions we asked were very pertinent to recognizing patterns and limitations. I felt relieved from the stress I was carrying and excited to begin the journey to the selves I met while meditating. I’ll definitely be recommending this workshop to others.
ALAINA W, HAPPY HABITS WORKSHOP ATTENDEE
faq
Is this coaching or therapy?
No. This is not coaching or therapy. I don’t tell you what to do or try to move you toward a specific outcome. I offer a structured space for reflection, careful listening, and language, so you can make sense of what’s happening without performance or urgency.
Is Happy Habits religious?
No. Happy Habits is a spiritual guide rooted in universal principles , not religious doctrine. It honors your unique path.
Who are these for?
This space may be supportive if you are wanting to stay intact while something changes; are at a personal or identity threshold; feeling internally conflicted or frozen; craving clarity without advice; or are sensitive to high-pressure growth spaces.
Do I need the workbook?
The book stands alone, but the workbook deepens your transformation with guided exercises and reflection space.